Approximately one year ago, the Wellesley News published a staff editorial on Wellesley College’s usage of gendered language. To this day, no noticeable changes have been made by the administration; the College has continued to utilize gendered terminology in all official documents and on its website. Most recently, this issue has been brought up through student feedback in response to the College’s five-year strategic plan, which in its draft released on April 5 refers to “women” a total of 22 times in its 12 pages.
When a student brought this issue up in the April 19 Senate meeting, President Paula Johnson responded, “The word ‘woman’ or ‘women’ will not be erased from the plan because that is a major board decision that would need to be made, but we’ve heard you and we will go through the plan.”
This should not be a board decision. The Board of Trustees has shown time and time again that they will not make progressive decisions because of their interest in attracting donors, as evidenced by the proposal this year to divest from fossil fuels — which the board is only paying attention to in its smaller, defanged iteration, after several years of nearly constant student pressure. The board has demonstrated repeatedly that it lags behind in embracing Wellesley’s progressive values. This also applies to the continued conversations around the place of transgender students at Wellesley.
This lack of gender-affirming language is one of the many continued affronts to the transgender community at Wellesley. The school’s Missions and Values page states that “Wellesley’s mission is to provide an excellent liberal arts education to women who will make a difference in the world.” This is followed by a list of values, including diversity, inclusion and gender equality. This claim of valuing inclusivity and gender equality is contradictory to the language they use and the ways in which Wellesley may confirm applicants’ gender status, such as requesting letters from healthcare providers, clergies, parents and/or teachers. To this extent, it comes across not as a way to openly accept non-men, but a mode to continue the erasure of transgender and non-binary students at Wellesley.
In order to fulfil the College’s original stated goal of making the world better, that mission must change. And in order to do so, we must update the mission statement and start acknowledging in public what we’ve known on-campus for years: we are not all “Wellesley Women” anymore. (Not that we ever were, really—as reported in the News, Wellesley class of 1936 alum N.E.B. Ostermann was one of many students at this school who challenged normative ideas of gender decades before much of the world began to catch up).
The experiences of transgender students at Wellesley are not well-documented. The News has published fewer than ten articles that include “transgender” in their headlines since 2015, when Wellesley began its policy of accepting applications from transgender women. And the College’s official publications, such as the alumnae magazine, mention transgender students even less; there is one, single article with the word “transgender” in a headline in Wellesley’s alumae magazine’s online archives, and only 17 that mention the word “transgender” at all.
In Wellesley’s official data regarding demographics of the student body, transgender students are not mentioned, either. Anecdotally, it is clear that trans students exist at Wellesley, but we aren’t given the numbers needed to prove that to the outside world. The only dataset our editors were able to encounter that even stated the number of trans students on campus was the NCHA-II schoolwide health survey from Spring 2018.This survey placed trans and nonbinary students at 7.8% of the student body: so, roughly 200 students, give or take — and this was three years ago.
As explained in Catherine D’Ignazio and Lauren Klein’s Data Feminism, the selection of which datasets are collected and published is not without bias: the numbers that we choose to observe and interpret always say something about which things — and which groups of people — we value. So, the lack of accessible data on trans students at Wellesley is either a deliberate administrative choice or a form of neglect on their part.
But despite this archival silence and continual, active administrative silencing, transgender students at Wellesley are not going away. Those of us on the Editorial Board of this newspaper certainly won’t be staying silent.
Trans students are not a small, insignificant part of Wellesley; they lead and contribute to this College’s community in every way possible. They are your student leaders, RAs, tutors, organizers and student government members. Simply put, Wellesley would not be the same without the contributions of trans students.
While the Editorial Board understands that using “women-only” language might appeal to elderly donors, those of us at the College now must consider withholding our future donations if this continues. Why would students donate to the preservation of a place that doesn’t want to acknowledge that transgender and non-binary students exist?
What makes Wellesley special is its student body, and trans students are a necessary part of that. By embracing that, Wellesley can become a much more beautiful and meaningful community for all of us, trans and cis students alike. Our diversity is what makes us strong, after all. So, to the Board of Trustees: acknowledging and uplifting transgender students’ contributions to Wellesley isn’t something to fear, but something to celebrate.
Wellesley College’s administration must stop lagging so shamefully behind its student body in its conception of what gender means. This school must recognize that transgender and non-binary students make Wellesley better, and start putting in more effort to become a supportive environment for those students, too.
Kenna | Jun 8, 2021 at 12:28 pm
As an “elderly” alum from the class of 1993, I had to say–once I found my reading glasses–great article! The world is changing, and for Wellesley to downplay non-binary and trans students, let alone folks for whom gender is not salient–well, that’s just myopic. While the Girl Scouts has moved to be welcoming of trans and nonbinary children, it’s a shame to see gender essentialism flow from a global institution with the power to set forward-looking norms. Women desiring to celebrate sisterhood will still find “a room of one’s own” at Wellesley, but now is the time to make room for people of other gender identities and expressions.
Julia | May 17, 2021 at 2:01 am
Alum from the class of 2006 here. I am so exhausted and frustrated by these sorts of pieces. So many of us are. And not just the “elderly”—which was incredibly ageist, by the way!—but alums from across years, and current students too. I’ve seen this circulating in social media W boards and I thought I would actually respond, as I’m not sure how much current students actually get to hear from us.
Wellesley College, like other women’s colleges, exists because we live in a sexist society. Women are still second class citizens in this country. We are still grossly underrepresented in the highest rungs of power, whether politics, business, law, the sciences… the list goes on. We still make 82 cents for every dollar a man makes. (And that disparity is worse for women of color.) We are still talked over in meetings. We are still not credited for our ideas. We still get saddled with balancing work and family obligations in ways men do not.
Patriarchy is exhausting and relentless, and Wellesley exists to prepare women to survive—even thrive—in the face of it all. And until we live in a world where women are equal to men, we will need institutions that center us. We need institutions whose explicit mission is to empower women.
So please understand what articles like this are asking. You are asking that women be silenced and erased from one of the very few spaces that truly centers us—and all for the benefit of men (or, if not men, then people who do not identify as women). That is misogyny in action.
Let me very clear: Trans women should come to Wellesley. Trans men should come if they want to. Gender queer people should come if they want to. And all should be addressed with their correct names and pronouns in classes, in residence halls, among peers and by staff.
But if the tiny minority of trans men and gender queer people who attend Wellesley truly think the College should drop its commitment to “women” because that term doesn’t fit *their* personal preferences, frankly I’d invite them to check their misogyny.
And finally, please be clear with yourselves and your audience that articles like this don’t speak for all trans men and gender queer students. There are plenty of trans men who have graduated from Wellesley who are horrified by these attempts to de-center women in the College’s mission. Plenty of trans men and gender queer people who attend Wellesley recognize that their personal identities do not—and should not—take precedence over the rights of women to have a higher educational space that centers them. Plenty of trans students recognize the need for women’s colleges. And quite honestly, students attending Wellesley who do not recognize why it’s gravely important for the College to center women should probably consider transferring to a coed school! It sounds like they are not appreciating and taking advantage of what makes Wellesley College so special: it’s steadfast commitment to women’s empowerment.
Ruth Kleinfeld '62 | May 20, 2021 at 11:08 pm
At last a sensible rejoinder. Thank you!
Delaney | May 23, 2021 at 9:28 am
Hi Julia, while I understand where you are coming from, I don’t think you are fully understanding the point that is being made. I don’t think you would find a single Wellesley student who doesn’t acknowledge the sexism and misogyny of our world, and the way in which the patriarchy influences our lives.
However, articles like these are NOT asking for the voices of women to be silenced. Uplifting the voices of trans and nonbinary sibs does not mean silencing women. Both groups can speak and be hear at the same time! I would argue that the strong voices of both groups are absolutely necessary to fight the patriarchy, because destroying the patriarchy also means destroying the theory of gender as we know it.
No one is asking for Wellesley to stop empowering women. As a cis woman, I have found great value in the educational space of Wellesley that I don’t think I would be getting at a co-ed school. However, I think what most of us want is for Wellesley to be an empowering space for people of ALL marginalized genders. Trans and non-binary sibs also deserve spaces which are safe, inclusive, and empowering, and many of us feel that historically women’s colleges can and should become some of those spaces, since they have a history of empowering marginalized genders.